The Begining

When I first met AD, we were just friends.  He was telling me about his wonderful son, and how hopeless he felt.  He went on to tell me about some of the horrible things BM had done, but he didn't know what to do because he didn't want to loose his son.  Soon after AD moved in with me, as roommates, because he had nowhere else.  Well...That's when it ALL started and hell broke loose!

BM FLIPPED out and would CONSTANTLY call and text AD.  She was calling me every name in the book. She REFUSED to let AD see SS unless he would see her and stay the night with her.  He made it clear that they had been done for a long time and only cared for her because of SS.  Then she went on to say AD abandoned HER...then it went into how he abandoned SS.  She convinced EVERYONE AD knew that he was a horrible father and abandoned SS...like BM always has said, "The truth will ALWAYS prevail"...

AD had paid for EVERYTHING since the day he found out she was pregnant.  He supported her and the baby.  She NEVER worked a day in her life!  AD told her that he would continue to pay her bills and EVERYTHING for SS AND buy her a car, until she was on her feet, as long as she didn't move around and let him see SS...Well needless to say that didn't happen...But she still DEMANDED that AD pay ALL bills and EVERYTHING for SS and buy her a car, even though she moved without even letting AD know and REFUSED to tell him where...

She would go onto say "the only way you will see MY son is if you marry me"

She was constantly asking for money...AD sent packages...

Well soon after AD's move in with me, BM took off with SS, across the country I might add...

She then VANISHED for close to a year!!!

AD and I tried EVERYTHING we could to find SS, we contacted everyone we could...NO luck.

During this time AD and I got married and I became a Bonus Mom, officially.  I have been in SS life since he was 2 months old!

Well eventually we got an address and started sending packages...they were refused and sent back.

People would contact AD telling him she needed money.  He said I'll give her as much as I can, I just want to see SS...the reply would be "forget it"

BM then filed for a few different support hearings...she then had them cancelled days before the hearing...

Then one day...AD and I showed up at her new home and surprised her.

She hid and didn't come out, so we sat there for 5 hours!!

FINALLY she came out, said she wanted to talk ALONE with AD and the "cheap piece" had to stay in the car.  After an hour or so, she brought out SS...

After almost a YEAR of NO contact with his daddy, SS, arms open and smiles, went right to AD!!

I was bawling like a baby in the car!!

Soon after we FINALLY were able to file for custody/parenting time and got into court!!